What you had for breakfast, which shoes you want to purchase next, and what your girlfriends hate about their single love life are not the things your man wants to hear you talk about, and women tend to think they know exactly what men want to hear. However, sometimes, ladies, we are just plain wrong. There are things men want us to talk about, but they don’t always involve football, baseball, or sex. Well, they do usually involve sex, but it’s really neither here nor there. If you want your man to really pay attention to what you have to say, say what he really wants to hear.
That Girl Checked Him Out
The next time you’re out, tell him (without jealousy, rage, or anger) that another woman was checking him out. The fact that he is sexy enough for someone other than you to look at is going to give him an ego boost, and the fact that you noticed and aren’t mad will make him feel like you trust him, and he will automatically think you’re cooler than any other woman he knows.
He Turns You On
Obviously, this one is a no brainer. Tell him he’s hot and he gets you hot.
His Family Rocks
Instead of whining to him how much his mom annoys you or his sister makes you want to move cross country (or how you worry one day his hairline – or waistline – will resemble his dad’s), tell him you think his family rocks. If he has a good relationship with his family, he wants you to have one, too.
He Is Awesome at His Job
Men naturally want to protect and take care of themselves and their families. By recognizing what a great job he’s doing at work, you are showing him you pay attention and notice that his is a kick ass kind of guy.
